You keep your mother busy in the house while your husband goes into her garage and carries off her property (Particularly the one saddle you missed when your father died).

OOoops!! Your mother looks out the kitchen window and sees your husband carrying her saddle down the driveway. She goes out and says, where are you going with that? He says, "You don't need it anymore" and throws it into his car. GOOD THINKING!! Now we know that anything we don't need anymore belongs to you. Clears up a lot of confusion.

EXPLOIT YOUR MOTHER